It may seem terrifying to pop the question to the love of your life, especially with all the factors that go into the perfect proposal. One of the most important of those factors being the search for the perfect engagement ring and wedding band to match.
There are so many choices and styles to choose from, it may seem impossible to find the right one that represents this new exciting chapter in your lives. To help, we have compiled a few helpful tips to make ring shopping a little easier and listed the new and different ways couples are tackling this step in the wedding planning process.
The Right Jeweler
Finding the right jeweler has to come first before finding the right rings. There are many options for jewelers, so having questions prepared ahead of time to address key factors surrounding the buying process and their rates is key to finding the right one for you (Check out a list of helpful questions here). Asking these questions will help the jewelers know if they can work with your deadlines and budget, to ensure your rings will be ready on time for the big day, and that there are plenty of options that fit in your price range.
Also, make sure you are comfortable with your jeweler, and that you feel they are not solely focused on the sale. If money becomes a common topic, they might not be the one for you. You’ll want a relationship with your jeweler that will last for years to come in case your ring may need repair, or you’re interested in anniversary additions in the future. Working with the same jeweler takes the stress out of the need for possible repairs or adjustments, knowing there is someone you can go to in case of immediate need.
Find Your Style
Consider your partner’s style. When looking for an engagement ring, your fiance to be may like understated rings with fewer diamonds, and more simplicity when it comes to the setting. Or, maybe they like to make a statement and would prefer a larger carat stone, or a bold colored band like rose gold.
These are all things to consider, and knowing your partner past just their fashion style, and their personality, can help to pick the right one. If you’re not sure where to start though, check their Pinterest vision boards for inspiration, or ask friends! Find a few options and see what their friends think would make the best style.
If you’re still feeling a little lost amongst the endless ring styles even after some outside advice, look for online resources and inspiration.
Try wedding sites like The Knot or even online jewelers can be helpful. Online jeweler, Blue Nile, makes the search easy and intuitive to find the engagement ring that speaks to you. They also have quick shipping options to a wide variety of locations, making time one less stressor. Or, simply talk to your jeweler when shopping. Their expertise can help to narrow down your choices. Just come prepared with an idea for them to work with and let them work their magic!
Go Together
Once you have found the right jeweler, it’s time to start shopping. Shopping together has become common among couples, and gives the bride a say in the style of her engagement ring and allows you both to pick out your wedding bands. Being the less traditional route, many couples don’t consider shopping together, but it can be added time to spend with one another to really customize your wedding rings
Proposal Tips
Once you have the rings, it’s time to plan for the big moment; asking the love of your life to spend the rest of your lives together. There are many ways to pop the question, with some going the traditional route, and others the trendy route.
Similar to considering the style of your rings, taking their personality into account can make all the difference. If they prefer a traditional and intimate proposal, consider taking them to a special spot that means something to you and your story, or propose in front of your closest family and friends. Or, go the more trendy route, and make a big statement with a public proposal, or a destination proposal. This takes more planning, but adds to the excitement of this wonderful moment.
Now it’s time to start planning the big celebration a.k.a. the wedding. Contact us today to discuss how our award-winning wedding DJ services can transform your big day to an exciting party that everyone will enjoy.
Photo credit: Debs (top) Izzy Cruz (middle) Tamim Abulhassan (bottom)
